With her dark brown skin and a few extra pounds around her waist, Varsha* was told by her family that no man would marry her. If any opportunity ever came her way, she was taught to accept it, no questions asked. Varsha had been a resident of a women’s shelter in South India for three years when her family summoned her back to her hometown to carry out an arranged marriage. Despite receiving regular counseling at the shelter, she was convinced she didn’t have a choice and was afraid her family would disown her if she didn’t go.

Varsha returned to her hometown ready to marry, but the man didn’t show up and the agreement fell through. Her family wanted her to stay and wait for them to find another option, but Varsha refused. She found she was eager to get back to the shelter and return to her job in the organization’s in-house baking unit. Through the counseling and mentorship she had received, Varsha realized she didn’t need to rely on the marriage option.

In a culture where marriage is put at a premium—bringing women a sense of worth, dignity, and security—Varsha’s decision is promising, and the shelter continues to affirm her desire for further growth and opportunities.

*Name changed for security purposes

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